How Erotic Novels Can Improve Your Sex Life

Today I have a guest post from Adam and Eve on how erotic novels can improve your sex life. As an author of paranormal erotic romances, I was interested to read this and learn more about this topic myself. Hope you enjoy it and maybe learn something new yourself. 🙂

Lisa

How Erotic Novels Can Improve Your Sex Life

This year the literotica world was taken over by E.L. James’ Fifty Shades of Grey. Suddenly, women everywhere were woken up to their sexuality. Sex toy sales saw a 50% increase, hardware stores sold out of rope and BDSM became a much more widespread term. Three little books revolutionized millions of relationships and sexual mindsets, but how? Why would words do more for the sex lives of American woman than movies, TV, celebrities and sex stores alike?

Check out why literotica, beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, can help recharge your sex life and improve your relationship.

While reading helps us escape our realities, erotic novels actually make us refocus on our own relationships. We see how the characters interact with each other, the romance and love between them and we want that for ourselves. Reading erotic novels can actually make you work harder in your own relationship so that the level of intimacy and romance and mirror more of what your reading. It will help inspire you to pick up the slack or pay more attention to your partner.

Erotica can also create a more open channel of sexual communication with your partner. You can use the book as a jumping off point to talk about your own fantasies or about what you like in the bedroom. You can also use it as a way to talk dirty to each other. Maybe you’re not very comfortable with talking dirty, read pages of the book to each other and see how it transform your bedroom moves. You may find that its now easier to vocalize your thoughts during sex.

If you have found that your libido has been on the fritz, reading erotica can help bring it back to what it once was. Where men are turned on visually, women are turned on mentally, so you are much more likely to get excited when you’re engaging your brain in sexy stories rather than watching them. Reading erotica prior to bedtime is a great way to get you in the mood. Or read it in the middle of the afternoon and find yourself wanting some afternoon delight.

If your sex life has been a little dull, erotica can help inspire you to change it up. Erotic books tend to skip over the vanilla sex and instead incorporate BDSM, sex toys, and positions you’ve never tried before. So take notice, get inspiration and then head over to Adam and Eve to get your bed as steamy as the book you’re reading.

And finally, literotica encourages role playing. Maybe you’ll stumble upon themes you you didn’t realize would turn you on or maybe it will ignite your imagination to come up with your own, either way, use the book the parlay the ideas into your own bedroom. You can act out the script of the novel to make you feel more comfortable with the idea. From there, you can build your own roles and see where it takes you.

Reading is always a great way to expand your horizons, increase your mental capacity and help you escape, but erotica novels can offer even more than that. Pick one up and see how it affects you!

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2 comments on “How Erotic Novels Can Improve Your Sex Life
  1. I like the part in your post about reading passages out loud to each other. I had my honey read part of a story, that I particularly liked, and he enjoyed it very much! Also, he learned more what I like. Good article.

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